How to win back your ex wife

Your wife has been emotionally distance with you for over a year now and you think that you’re relationship is at the edge of the hill ready to fall anytime if either one of you makes the wrong move. She has already given signs of wanting to end the relationship and you’re not open to the idea.

Right now you are searching for ways on how to improve your relationship with her. Your main goal is to re-establish closeness and intimacy between you and your wife. It’s been a year or so since the last time you showed intimacy with each other. Over the past year, both of you just live together like housemates. You’ve lost romance and sexual desire for each other. You love your wife more than she ever knew but you have difficulty in expressing your affection for her. You are not the type of guy that who is vocal and you can’t even remember when was the last time you said “I love you” to her.

You knew that she likes to hear the words from you. You get irritated every time she asked you the question-Do you love me? Instead of telling her, “Yes, I love you” your reply was irritation saying what kind of question is that. She just stopped asking you and eventually you noticed her drifting apart.

Now you’re worried because she is ready to leave you anytime. She hasn’t announced yet and you don’t want it to happen. What will you do to stop her from getting out of your relationship? Here is some advice that might help you stop her from leaving:

  1. A joker would say close the door! Hmmm…don’t get mad, he’s actually right. If you want to keep your wife you must close the door and open your heart to her. You can literally close your bedroom door and talk to heart to heart about your emotional distance and honestly tell her that you don’t want to lose her.
  2. She’s been longing to hear the magic words from you…It’s about time to tell her “I Love You.” and take responsibility of the problem since you’re the one who created emotional distance between you.
  3. Look into her eyes while stating your desire to reconnect with her and awaken your love for each other.
  4. Use the magic of touching to soften her heart and kiss her to rekindle intimate moments.
  5. Ask her for a date and do the things she wanted you to do for her to feel how much you love her. In other words start courting her again, stimulate your excitement for each other and replace all your fears and emotional distance with intimacy.
  6. Be intimate and start being honest and vocal about your feeling for your wife. Express more love and appreciate her more often.

According to Dr. Bonnie Eaker Weil, author of Make Up, Don’t Break Up “In marriage, closing the exits means committing to hang in there and agreeing to stay together and trying to work it out.