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In our modern time, we can say that we are living in a “mobile society” a term which is probably coined because of the current lifestyle of constantly moving from one place to another plus the increase in the advancement of mobile phone technology. Almost every person in our society owns a mobile phone not only in highly industrialized countries like the United States, UK, Canada, but also in developing countries like India and the Philippines.
At present you can say that “mobility” is often the source of many problems between individual in their relationships. Long distance relationship could be one problem. Your sweetheart is probably planning to move in a different city because of job and this certainly will pose a huge impact on your relationship. Long distance relationship may not be favorable to you and your mate, and you might break up in the long run. How can you save your relationship from your current situation considering that you don’t have a choice but to have a long distance relationship for quite some time?
- You are not alone in this kind of situation. Many couples out there are in a long distance relationship but are able to maintain their love and passion for their mate by constantly communicating with each other using the modern mobile technology. They talk over the phone, send text messages, chat etc. Staying connected with your partner is important. Today that’s no longer impossible.
- Cultivate your mutual interest and understand the need for the long distance relationship for the improvement of the person you love. Keep in mind that, the situation is not permanent and look forward to the coming days that you’ll be together again.
- Stay in love with your mate—you fall in love with him or her because of so many reasons and keep that feeling of fondness for your mate inside your heart and use it to stay away from any temptation that might only worsen your problem.
- Having positive attitude and trust towards your mate helps maintain the feeling of safety, and intimacy in your relationship.
- Make a list on what thing you can do together to be able to survive your current situation, be open to each other’s worries and ideas and make a commitment to follow your plans in order to save your relationship from any possible outside force that might cause destruction.
The person you love maybe away from you because of his or her job. There’s nothing to worry if you truly love each other and you commit yourselves to guard that and save your relationship no matter what happens. You must also keep in mind that:
“Absence sharpens love, presence strengthens it.”